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I turned around to see my youngest son doing some impressive puppetry with his weenie. I will hand it to him, it did look like an ice cream cone. As it turns out, he was able to do several fairly realistic looking impressions with his junk.
Hell-bent on keeping my Zen going, I kept my eyes closed for several minutes longer, toy on my head and all. Eventually, my then three-year-old could contain himself no longer. His penis. I had been chilling on the couch for several minutes with toddler peen on my forehead. In stark contrast, I have not seen my almost year-old naked in several years.
He is intensely private with his body, and I respect that. Recently, my youngest, now five, has taken a cue from his older brother and wanted privacy getting dressed, etc. If they are comfortable being naked in front of me, I am okay with that. If they are not, I am okay with that too. If, as Saw my son naked often the case with my five-year-old, they are letting it all hang out one day, and want strict privacy the next, I respect that as well.
I have no desire to see them naked, but I want them to be the ones to decide how comfortable they are with their bodies and how much they show of them. Of course, we talk about time and place. You need not worry about coming across my five-year-old swinging in the breeze in the frozen food aisle.
But at home with immediate family members is a safe place for them work out what privacy means to them. Another reason that our house is somewhat clothing-optional is because I want them to see that I am comfortable being naked in front of them sometimes, and other times not.
My sons see me naked sometimes, and once again, I take my cues from them about whether they are comfortable with this or not. They have not so far expressed a problem, but if they did, I would respect that. I do not do naked fashion shows. But if they come into my room in the morning and find me naked in bed, or see me getting changed, or coming back to my room from the shower, I am okay with that.
And in addition to that, contrary to what is implied by the media, it is okay for bigger women to Saw my son naked some skin too and be comfortable with their naked bodies. I am hoping that this message will get across to them and stay with them subconsciously as they grow and develop attitudes about women. We have stretch marks and moles and uneven skin tones. By not making an effort to hide this from them, I want them to know that despite my flaws, I am comfortable with my body: a message I want them to retain about their own bodies and those of others who are not air-brushed cover models.
I also want them to know that sometimes I want my privacy too. Allowing them to see me naked sometimes but wanting privacy other times is an important lesson in consent. Just as respecting their right to be seen or not seen naked is. So, while everything on my body may hang low and wobble to and fro, I let my boys see it anyway and will continue to do so until any of us feel uncomfortable.
But I will refrain from perfecting a puppetry act. Heather M. Jones is a mom of 2 from Toronto. When not writing, she can be found reading, worrying, and spending way too much time on Facebook. Family Kids. Printer-friendly version. Heather Jones.Saw my son naked
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